From our users: emotional, from mother, at the adult man
All adults separate from the parents and try to lead independent life, to start the families. But often just it seems. At the subconscious level more than a half of adults depend on opinion of mother and the father even then when it is not visible. The dependence of children on parents is usually shown in the form of a teenage habit to do everything in defiance. Such communication is not noticeable to people around, but already adult child understands motives of the act. Doing something forbidden, the person thinks of the family, is afraid not to justify their confidence. And it is called emotional dependence on parents.
In addition, each patient with a similar problem is obliged to learn to love himself first of all. Self-confidence and the forces helps to move away or, at least, to start this difficult process.
For a start it is necessary to become financially independent person that you could leave a native home. It will be the first step on the way to achievement of the purpose. Financial support is a key problem which prevents to move away from parents within admissible norm. You are obliged to find a side job or to reduce the costs in order that was enough for independent life.
If the dependent daughter from mother at any serious decision has problems and mother's silhouette - it means that it is time to deal with this problem will be always on the mind. Constant sense of guilt will not allow to take a step forward for achievement of the purposes.