Words will wound and words treat, in at one time them bring suffering, in other disposal. By force of habit, which was developed for years, we connected words with the experiences. When I speak the word "nose", some part of my mentality unconsciously, almost imperceptibly from my personality concerns it attention. When I tell "suffering", I do not feel concrete pain, but its echo fleetingly rushes in consciousness. The more particularly words reflect the maintenance of mentality, the more brightly show its contents. If you are equated to dirt, some deeply suppressed experience which is associated with this dirt can wake up a pain echo. Sometimes, the more vigorously the person denies in himself some quality, the more brightly this quality in it is shown in a suppressed look. Suppression - one of mechanisms of psychological protection. And here, besides I am not sure that my subjective understanding of this process is similar to understanding which in suppression is put by psychoanalysts. Owing to long-term introspection, I consider suppression as global process by means of which the person denies reality that finally and is the reason of all his sufferings. And work with this process can lead to disposal of sufferings.
Relaxing, I beheld own experiences, paying special attention to those areas in which relaxation happened most difficult. Plunging attention into these areas, I saw that the most painful experiences which I unconsciously suppressed, just exactly there disappear in order that to muffle them. We fix the endured events in experiences. Some "difficult" feelings which we refuse to live, appearing, at once do not pass, and kind of get stuck in our unconscious dead freight.
All our desires are our unrealized energy, our potential which rests against mental blocks. And by the way, as an example, desire to wear out is a vital energy which encounters one of mental blocks in throat area. That this energy did not torment, the talker the chatter spends energy in a conversation. Similar processes happen in our thinking. We continuously stay in mind dreams, and we are eager to receive impressions to burn mental energy which presses on thin blocks, being shown in boredom, melancholy and despondency.
Honesty with itself, helps to open mental blocks therefore in psychological consultation the frankness of the client is so important. But to demand this frankness nobody not in the right. The person has to ripen and want to solve the problem. Otherwise, opening others wound, it is possible to get it in the neck to face unwillingness and unavailability of the person to work with these experiences. If there is no readiness to digest suppressed material yet, but the protective mechanism of suppression is already broken, the person will try to restore this mechanism in every way. Restoration of such protection - process tiresome, but sometimes - appropriate.