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With a question & #171; What reasons and what to do if the husband left family? & #187; and similar to it questions those women who remained in private with own loneliness, after leaving of the husband quite often address me. And whatever circumstances were in each situation in particular - it is always the tragedy.

However, are several moments, from a position of already new conscious outlooks on life which need to be known by all means if suddenly in your life the unpleasant episode connected with withdrawal from family of the husband nevertheless occurred, or just in the heat. It is important not to forget that we the thoughts, beliefs, beliefs and emotions create our reality, and everything that in it is, is reflection of the fact that ourselves and about this world think of ourselves.

Sometimes the spouse, for example, the behavior broadcasts, shows to the wife her true attitude to a situation and to himself. That is, it is kind of wild for an unprepared ear sounded, subconsciously you wanted that your husband left you. And here the reasons for which it occurred are the second question.

Dobra and clemencies to all of you.

And perhaps at some point suddenly you will find out that the delusion veil dictated by stay "in a role" fell down, and you do not feel any communication with the husband any more, to you it is easy and good. It means that your soul passed this lesson and closed a door behind past heartrending experience.

Now in times rotary to Light, need to be "grinding stones" disappeared, all necessary difficult experience by the highest Forces is already built also our task in marriage already absolutely another - to find love outside through love to itself.

As well as the people surrounding us, especially the closest project the relation and behavior "zerkalit", reflect to us us. It can be not obligatory a direct mirror when you, for example, receive the embittered, aggressive attitude of the spouse towards yourself, and at the same time do not see that with someone another (it is not obligatory with the husband, though maybe with it) you behave not less provocatively and aggressively, sacredly hoping for the correctness and validity this way to act.

But in spite of the fact that nearly an every minute the life we will see off on the stage, we, it appears, we can from it and leave. It is simple to be discharged mentally of any situation, to change "orchestra seats", having become the viewer. Simply person. It gives huge strength and allows to see many things absolutely on the other hand, having left unnecessary emotions.

The true reasons for most of which leaving of the husband is favorable to the woman, can be very much and many. But truth one. Having accepted reality and responsibility that you created this situation, you have an opportunity it to drive.

The second moment & #8212; this aspiration to understand what true parts of yours "I" reflected the leaving from you your husband. Therefore as formulation of the question "For what good in my life I created such situation that my husband threw me" & #8212; will be the most correct.

Yes, in each case to understand a situation and it is better to harmonize it in the company with the competent expert who not only on all these "why - why - why - for what?!" will answer, but also will carry out the corresponding wise professional manipulations with that the woman could leave a trap of own underestimated self-conceit, stopped being the hostage of this situation, and began to live, at last, full-blooded further.

The husband and the wife practically throughout their joint course of life were for each other such "grinding stones" which through pain and sufferings ground each other and gave by the end of life to the souls a unique facet.

Someone, being in this marriage, cannot carry out any vital tasks which want to be carried out. For example, the wife secretly dreams to be "the person of the world", to travel all over the world, burns with the volunteer ideas, and to the husband is on the contrary comfortable in a habitual zone of dwelling.

Having understood the true reasons and benefits, having kindly transformed them, you will be able to build the vital reality absolutely in a different way, without bringing to extremes, will be able to return the husband or to prevent his leaving.

Therefore marriage during Kali's era though was veiled by romantic attributes and also generously flavored with physical hormonal reactions of a body (passion, love and as! Without them all from each other would run up and nobody would pass the lessons), but marked itself the beginning not of the easy vital period on which way of roses and magnificent blossoming much less, than sharp thorns.

But to some souls, on some important and to only one known reasons for them, it is necessary to finish in this embodiment still these roles of "the left husband" and "the left wife", and here it is important to know the following.

The first. You have to accept simply as an axiom that you play a role. At us there is a lot of roles. We at the same time both the wife, and mother, and someone's daughter, and the employee at work, and the housewife, and the girlfriend, and are a lot of still who.

You can answer this question honestly to yourself, or you will be helped by the competent expert as sometimes the reasons of such "benefit" can be so painful what to pull out them alone difficult work. At someone the powerful discontent with, latent confidence that it is not worthy in the life of attention and love of the good man can be the true cause.

The tragedy first of all left, thrown (an ugly word in this situation therefore so there is no wish to apply it) the woman feels as if the some "inferiority" which is pressed down by a heavy plate that it "not such", "not that", "falls short of something and for some reason".

During a difficult, heavy era of Kali which already happily passed, and behind which we closed doors in 2012, the main spiritual task of the husband and wife was in that through difficulties of family life, through the conflicts, through a negative, and through quite often the emerging not resolved situations of ancestors of Rod or the own former embodiments, all the same to leave in love, acceptance and harmony.

As a result - a painful gap, the tragedy, the depression period, then the logical next period of "a revolt from ashes" and unexpected (for a brain, but not as a hobby) desire to remake the life completely, to start life afresh, in other country, in other activity.

And the wife in whom since the childhood inspired that it is necessary to be "the good girl" and then "model of a wife" (again roles) that "the family is the main thing" that "to the woman to leave family is a terrible sin", latently, subconsciously and imperceptibly for herself, creates conflict situations and pushes to this decisive step of the husband.